I love to work with those already entangled...
Relationships—whether with friends, partners, colleagues, or communities—are messy, beautiful, and full of potential. I’m here to help you navigate the tricky bits: the unspoken tensions, the hard conversations, the places where honesty and vulnerability feel just out of reach. Together, we’ll find clarity, ease, and deeper connection.
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I offer:
✨ 1:1 Sessions – Dive deep into personal challenges or gain a fresh perspective on what’s holding you back.
✨ Mediation for Groups – From polycules to project teams, I guide collectives through conflicts and toward shared understanding.
✨ Talks & Speeches – Whether it’s an engaging lecture on gender, racism, or consent, or a storytelling performance full of humor and heart, I bring my love for the stage to your event.
✨ Custom Workshops – Let’s design something just for your community. From birthday gatherings focused on building consensual relationships to housing collectives exploring conflict culture, I’ll craft a session that meets your needs.
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Conflict doesn’t have to be a dirty word. Let’s work together to reimagine it as a doorway to growth, care, and deeper connection. Send me an email, and let’s collaborate. <3
Platonic intimacy: a community building toolkit
Intimacy of harm
wholesome anarchist training <3
Playfight!
gender unbound
queerily ever after
anal joy!
We’ve been sold the idea that intimacy is something exclusive to romance or sex. But what if we flipped that script? What if you could cultivate intimacy and trust in every relationship—starting with yourself? This workshop is here to challenge the norm and celebrate connection through the lens of consent, helping you build stronger, more authentic relationships.
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We’ll dive into the raw potential of platonic intimacy, not just as a way to connect with others, but as a foundation for your own self-awareness and growth. Through hands-on exercises and discussions - often tied to the political - we’ll dig into your personal relationship with intimacy, breaking down how to create safety and discovering how to connect with others on a deeper, more intentional level.
It's not just about finding community—it’s about creating it from within.
My workshops
When we relate to each other, it is inevitable that we will cause harm - this is simply a part of being human, being messy, and being conditioned by the societies we are parts of. Making mistakes is scary; causing harm is painful. How can we transform moments of pain into moments of closeness?
In this workshop, we use open discussions and guided exercises to dive deeper into an exploration of the mechanisms that are activated within us when we cause harm. How can we be safe people when receiving feedback? How do we imagine accountability? And how can we forgive ourselves when we behave in imperfect and harmful ways?
"One day you will be called on to break a big law in the name of justice and rationality. Everything will depend on it. You have to be ready. How are you going to prepare for that day when it really matters? You have to stay “in shape” so that when the big day comes you will be ready. What you need is “anarchist calisthenics.” Every day or so break some trivial law that makes no sense, even if it’s only jaywalking. Use your own head to judge whether a law is just or reasonable. That way, you’ll keep trim; and when the big day comes, you’ll be ready."
— James C. Scott, Two Cheers for Anarchism
For anyone questioning the scripts that society is feeding you and consciously choosing your own path. For those who realize that the way things are is an unacceptable way forward. For those whose existence is at odds with the world and are forging new paths to being, connecting, and loving each other. Come join!
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Playfight is your time to rassle like you did as a kid again! Come let it all out in a playful way and rewrite your narrative around conflict, (non-sexual) body contact and playing around with other adults <3
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In this workshop, we’re stripping away the layers of societal expectations that have blurred our connection to our own truth. It’s time to tune in and ask: What does gender mean to you—beyond performance, beyond anyone else's gaze? This is about uncovering who you are, for yourself, no one else.
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Embark on a magical journey to a fairytale land where gender boundaries dissolve and true connection blossoms. In this tender exploration of attraction and embodiment, I invite you to let go of old stories and step into the most radiant version of yourself. Together, we’ll experience the world with fresh eyes, discovering a wondrous, new realm. No need to worry about past experiences or labels like “straight” or “gay”—just allow yourself to delight in your body and the joyful connection it can bring with others.
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Welcome to the celebration of the butt!
As a true non-binary genital, butts can be played with in any gender constellation - and that can unlock some juicy new dynamics. We'll start slowly with a discussion around pleasure, shame, and everything in between from the perspective of the anus. Then we'll enter a skill sharing on butt techniques and finish off with a free flow space for exploration - from playing with butts to trying on strap ons!
Genital touch will not be facilitated but is welcome in the free flow.
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